regarding the map below...

this question was asked: "what do you count as 'been to'... do you have the stay the night or does driving through count?" -kg

well, driving thru counted for minnesota and wisconsin, but we drove from chicago to north dakota and back and the return trip was during the middle of the nite so it was like i stayed overnite in the state ;-)
i went to manhattan for one all day trip and that definitely counts. same for a couple times out to west virginia. delaware was the 5 minute blip and bridge on the way to nyc, but that bridge toll was so expensive that i get to count it. and lindsay visited a mall there because they have no sales tax so i will at least count it by proxy haha. i almost thought maryland was just driving and going to the airport, but we had a church retreat there last fall.